“Am I a sensitive?” quiz

Welcome to The Designing Fairy. This site is especially made for the Sensitive, the Empath, and the closet or not-so-closet intuitive and perceptive individual. 

waterspiritWelcome Empath, Sensitive & Closet Intuitive!

MY LETTER TO YOU:

You may have spent your whole life trying to shut your sensitivity down,  like I did. Instead, the abilities come up in nervousness and anxiety, belly aches, or even depression.

You may have been told that you don’t have these abilities and are just wanting attention, but you have seen with amazing accuracy the validity of your perceptions.

You may have felt fear about your abilities, but you really do have control once you have tools and understanding on how to use them.

You may have felt the backlash of your sensitivity living in an insensitive world–you’re sensitive to foods, the environment. Everything makes you rash out. Too much people overwhelms you. You may even find yourself getting more sensitive as the world changes. Those are the times you curse being you.

You may have felt an outsider in the world, and want to hide who you are just to fit in. But you forget, everyone has something a little different inside of them.

You may have felt very lonely as you deeply connect to everyone and everything on such a deep level, because they can’t always return the favor.

You have these gifts for a reason. You were made this way for a bigger purpose. Embrace your gifts, because your path is one of self-acceptance. And once you reach that, and embrace all of you, you will truly save the world, one person at a time.

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Here’s how I can help and support you:

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  • Take a class made just for you in Fairy Online School.

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Sign up for the Care of the Sensitive class for tools on taming your sensitivity with the gift of Nature and other healing tools (offered monthly). In October and November,  there’s the popular Develop Your Empathic Skills class. When you get some control over your gift, you will see how handy it is! Develop and expand upon your natural intuitive, empathic abilities that you possess as a sensitive in mediumship, angel communication, animal communication, empath or healing with Nature in international Fairy Online School. Self-directed courses, with no pressure, all fun, and even private course pages. There are On Demand classes, regular classes, and fun mini classes. Not sure which to take? Sign up for my Fairies 101 Sampler class!

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  • Use natural healing as support.

Nature healing is perfect for the Sensitive. As a sensitive, I am either allergic to or my body hates most chemicals or medicines that others can tolerate. Enter my connection to the Fairies and Nature!  Nature taught me all about flower essences as one tool to ease and balance this wonderful trait in a gentle, non-toxic way ( I am sensitive to all allopathic medicines). For very little money, I have the tools and support I need right in my backyard! I watched Flower Essences help eased my one dog through a thunderstorm, help calm me through stress, and aid me through such clarity on many emotional dilemmas! Check out my online  Fairy Beginner class  and my Flower Essences class to learn how to use and make your own flower essences! And check out the Flower Essences for the Sensitive shop I have made.

  • Use your empathic skills in a career!

Receive a certificate and training in Fairy Healing, or Spirit Reader, or let me help you train as an animal communicator in a mentorship. I also offer Private Lessons to help you understand and develop your empathic gift. Let my long years of experience assist you.

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  • Order the book for Sensitivity.

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Order my new e-book and book, Help! I’m Sensitive! here. Now available on Amazon.com. There’s tons of tools in it to balance and have control over your sensitivity and lots and lots of stories you can relate to written by a fellow empath.

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Animal empath? Great with connecting with animals? Check out my new book also available on Amazon.com here.  I am also working diligently on the sequel to Help! I’m Sensitive, Your Turtle Shell.

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  • Read the Blog here.

I’ve written tons of essays and articles that will help support and give tools to your sensitive self.    Sign up for this site and receive notices on new posts and video newsletters. 

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41 thoughts on ““Am I a sensitive?” quiz

  1. denmarkguy

    Just passing by and saying hello– found your blog through BlogCatalog– looking for fellow sensitives in the blogosphere.

  2. Hey denmarkguy. Nice to meet you.

  3. booch3

    Hi there – found your site through Julia Stonestreet’s Leonine Times. I’m a Cancer, and throughout my life, I’ve been so careful about everyone else’s feelings. So much so, that I’ve rejected and ignored my own in order to ensure the well being of another. Now forty, I’m getting better at recognizing my journey…my energy. I’m better in crowds, though a mass of people still does exhaust me!

    I’m going to check out your store…Thanks!

  4. Very nice to meet you, fellow sensitive!

  5. *chuckles

    Absolutely! I’m an elemental lightworker who is also getting better (finally) at recognizing her journey . . . and what a wild one it has been, especially lately with so many energetic shifts :)

    Glad to have discovered your blog.

    Stay tuned, be well and catch the light in every cell.

    1111

  6. FeminineFlair

    I’ve always known, but never had a label for it, never knew it was a shared thing, either, until about 10 years ago. The first time I was really aware of something inside me was when I saw the movie, The Three Lives of Thomasina, in 1964. I was 12. The movie was disturbing and mesmerizing on a very personal level. I never got over it, and I’ve never shaken the feeling from it. I learned to tap into it in a lot of ways, including art, design, writing, music. I have a special affinity to nature, and to cats, and especially to feral cats. I am not shy, but definitely an introvert, who can be “on,” when I need to be. I have learned to balance pretty well after nearly 6 decades in this skin. Glad to meet you all.

  7. JRyan

    Hello,

    I’m not sure if this is the right forum for this but I’m betting someone can point me in the right direction. Growing up I used to see (and more often sense) colors for people. I could generally tell how they felt emotionally (not as an exact science or perfectly, but as a general rule). As an adult, I saw less and sensed more of the colors.

    A few years ago my fiance and I split up. I firmly believe that this was my soul mate. However, free will trumps any “soul mate” connection and the stresses in our relationship became too much. When that happened I lost all ability to sense anything in anyone.

    I have been without any real sense of emotions for over 6 years now. The only thing I ever “sense” is related to my former fiance who moved 120 miles away. I can tell when things are not going well for my ex and this is usually validated later through mutual friends and acquaintences. This in itself is a difficulty since I have since moved on and my ex presumeably has as well.

    The real heart of my difficulty, however, is twofold. Is it possible to get my old “skills” back and improve them? Is it possible to sever the connection between my soul and that of my ex’s? Any thoughts?

  8. Mandymoo

    Worth a try, it’s worked for me before, and you may need to do it a number of times as its seems to be a very strong connection. You could try a visualisation. Imagine firstly yourself and your ex fiance in the picture together, initially you are connected, like an umbiblical cord, allow yourself to feel what is there and what colour you sensing. Take your time .Now choose a colour that makes you feel strong and make yourself that colour. Your ex becomes a shady spotty grey that starts to fade into the background. You need to cut those ties clean and quick and with conviction. Cut them. Feel and watch your colour grow stronger and brighter and happier and you regain back your all of your strength and all of your senses. As you get bigger and brighter your ex quickly disappears until he is a tiny black dot that floats off into the universe. Forgotten.
    You are no longer connected and no longer have ties. You have no need what so ever to sense anything related to him at all. ( Im just guessing the sex here) Do this again if you feel the need to reinforce that break. Hope it helps.

  9. Hi. I happened upon your blog when searching for information to help me confirm what the doctor’s can’t and what medications have not been able to help in me: my depression, anxiety, and panic that strikes me on public outings. I’ve always been a very spiritual and open person, I’ve studied the paranormal and these types of gifts for some time now, because I have always felt some sort of kinship with them and I’ve been working on trying to recognize any “gifts” that I might have that could be indirectly causing my emotional issues.

    I’ve recently had some experiences with seeing what I believe were auras, and feeling vibrations around people that seemed, innately to me, to resonate with their moods. I believe this may go back to something I read about quite some time ago, called realm dynamics, but I’m pretty much just confused at this point. I think my confusion stems from my lack of identity with anyone who might understand what I’m going through or what I see/feel around others.

    I hope that your blog can help me to understand myself – I’ve been on this journey for some time, and have yet to find any resources that have truly helped me, aside from providing “information.” Information is useless to me unless I understand it, and what with mixed emotions and a constant struggle with picking up things around me and not knowing how to turn it off or deal with it…I remain frustrated and lost.

  10. Christy,
    I was an undiagnosed” empath for so many years! I had stomach aches from others’ anger, panic attacks from overload in malls, crowds. I was so glad when I found out what it was from. I also teach an online class, Care of the Sensitive, and offer coaching for other sensitives, if you are interested. Go to my site. Otherwise, keep reading. I hope I share what will help you. There’s lots of things you can do to help including learning protection with light bubbles. I find flower essences REALLY help and sometimes, even avoiding the crowds knowing that it will be too much for you. So glad you found the blog!

  11. Ali

    Hello,
    I am so intrigued by your blog spot. I have been extremely in tune my entire life. I know when people die before anyone else does. Whenever someone calls me or comes into the room to tell me bad knews, I can sense automatically what happened and what they are about to tell me before they even speak. My sensitive powers weren’t as active as a child but I am turning 19 in November (smack dab in the middle of the Scorpio sign) and my senses are ever increasing. I know when I’m not alone and i feel everything.
    In fact last night I had called one of my friends who is an EMT and he sounded down in the dumps. He’s a prideful person and tries to always seem as though he’s just fine and has not a care in the world. I read him like a book telepathically. The only way I can ever find out what he is really thinking or feeling is by reading him through his voice and guessing what it is. 99.9% of the time I’m right on. But back to how he sounded sad, he said to me “I’ve had a really bad day”. Most of the time it would be because he lost a patient or couldn’t save someone, but I knew that wasn’t why. So I asked him what I was feeling… “did you kill someone?”. He paused and started breathing heavily and answered “how did you know?”. He, in self defense, had shot two men that day. Further, I knew where the gunshots were at and the setup of how they were all standing when the shoot out happened.
    I know that I have psychic/telepathic/sensitive abilities, but I would like to learn how to further them. If anyone has any information on how to train and increase your already prevelant psychic abilities, please let me know.

    Thanks a lot,
    Ali

    • Hello, I too am a Scorpio but on the cusp of Libra. I believe Scorpions can have good psychic abilities and Librans to behold much beauty, hench my attraction to angels and fairies. Blessings.

  12. Yes, Ali. I teach online classes and coach folks. You can check out my site info at http://www.ronniannhall.com

  13. Adrian

    I am a sensitive and ever since I was a child I knew there was something different about me. My mood can change almost instantly just from being around someone long enough. If a person’s emotions are strong enough, I can physically feel the energy from those emotions. I can also feel a person’s energy when they enter the room. My ability is even strong enough to feel, hear, and sometimes see energy from ghosts. Unfortunately as I get older my ability becomes weaker and I want to know how to make it strong again. When I was a little girl, I always felt surrounded by energy. Even though it scared the hell out of me then, I want that feeling back now. When I turn off the lights at night, I don’t see darkness; I see lights. If you know of some way for me to intensify my abilities I would love to hear from you.

  14. Tara

    Hello
    I am definitely a sensitive. Each one of you questions applied to me. A few days ago I went to a healer and she said I have fairy energy. Any thoughts on this?

    • HI Tara. Sure do know about fairy energy. Some of us have that. :) We love Nature and Animals. Need them to survive and thrive. Are passionate about the environment. And focused on healing. Very cool thing to have.

  15. Hi everyone! Welcome fellow Sensitives.

  16. I went to get back in touch with my sensitvity.
    How do I get my power back.
    I want to be more in tune with them .

  17. Anonymous

    Hello, I am so intrigued by your blog spot. I have been extremely in tune my entire life. I know when people die before anyone else does. Whenever someone calls me or comes into the room to tell me bad knews, I can sense automatically what happened and what they are about to tell me before they even speak. My sensitive powers weren’t as active as a child but I am turning 19 in November (smack dab in the middle of the Scorpio sign) and my senses are ever increasing. I know when I’m not alone and i feel everything. In fact last night I had called one of my friends who is an EMT and he sounded down in the dumps. He’s a prideful person and tries to always seem as though he’s just fine and has not a care in the world. I read him like a book telepathically. The only way I can ever find out what he is really thinking or feeling is by reading him through his voice and guessing what it is. 99.9% of the time I’m right on. But back to how he sounded sad, he said to me “I’ve had a really bad day”. Most of the time it would be because he lost a patient or couldn’t save someone, but I knew that wasn’t why. So I asked him what I was feeling… “did you kill someone?”. He paused and started breathing heavily and answered “how did you know?”. He, in self defense, had shot two men that day. Further, I knew where the gunshots were at and the setup of how they were all standing when the shoot out happened. I know that I have psychic/telepathic/sensitive abilities, but I would like to learn how to further them. If anyone has any information on how to train and increase your already prevelant psychic abilities, please let me know.
    +1

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  19. Heather

    I find myself wondering where I fit here. I’ve always been in-tune & sensitive to the emotions & feelings of other people & animals. However, 8 yrs ago I had a near death expierence that left me severly injured, & since then I’ve been feeling strong energy around me. At this point the only distictions I can make in these energy’s is either positive or negative, human or animal, male or female. Nothing more. Sometimes it scares me and other times it brings me comfort. It seems that in the lowest times of my life the energy becomes stronger & more frequent. I don’t know if I fit in as a sensitive. I certainly don’t have control over it at this point. Any thoughts about what I’m expierencing & what this could mean for me?

    • Heather, sounds like you are open to spirit now. The stronger energy you are feeling when you are down are your “angels” or what I call guides–your spiritual helpers. They come in closer when you need them most. I’d say you are sensitive. That near death experience opened you up more to that world of spirit. You are now dipping into more mediumship abilities. Start to play with it. Identify the energies. Put on lots of protection around you so you communicate with what is good for you.

  20. I am just so glad I found your website and FB page. I am definately sensitive and part fairy. I have loved fairies and angels all my life and am over the moon to find other like souls. thank for creating this.

  21. kim walker

    It was so good to take your sensitity test and realise i am not going mad.

  22. Very informative as I too am a highly sensitive empath. I embrace it now and I’m learning to better handle overload from outside sources. I need nature. Lot’s of it! I also use only natural remedies. It’s so refreshing to talk to someone who understands what it is like to be sensitive in an insensitive world. I’m starting my first book about my experiences. This is exciting stuff. There is no reason for us to hide anymore. It’s times to shine our light. The world needs us! :)

  23. Lor

    Hello,

    Well I answered yes to every question on the quiz. I am excited to hopefully get some insite to my newly (since last Dec.) discovered gift of mine. Thank you!

  24. Scene Phenum

    All those traits have hit what I am on the dot. I’m not sure if I’m a sensitive. Maybe I am maybe I’m not but I don’t know…. Please if anyone can contact me at skywardtheory@gmail.com so they could help me clarify. Thx

  25. Moira Cooper

    Thank you very much. I just recently found out that my vharacterisicts and feelings match a sensitive, for the only wuestion above that i said no to was number four. I dont really want to tell my friends, so its nice to see ither people like me. Btw, im a leo…

  26. Karen

    Ronni, Congratulations on all of your accomplishments! I am so proud of you. It is wonderful to see that dreams do come true, that they have blossomed, and touch many peoples’ lives in positive ways. <3

  27. Katrina

    I know when something is going to happen to someone before it happens at least 2 weeks in advance. Sometimes, I feel some of the pain. I dont like to dream, because I have many, many “dejavous”. Its constant. I dont feel right putting a comment here, but am doing it anyway

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